Have you ever wondered what it truly means to prosper? As we step into a new year, many of us are setting goals and dreaming of success. But what if prosperity is more than just financial gain or personal achievements? In the letter of 3 John, we find a heartfelt prayer that offers a deeper understanding of prosperity—one that encompasses our entire being, including our spiritual health. This prayer, written by the Apostle John to his beloved friend Gaius, is a reminder that true prosperity is about experiencing and enjoying favorable circumstances while walking in the truth of Christ. I want to focus on the phrase “all may go well…” and “as it goes well with…” The phrase “go well,” comes from a Greek word that means –“to experience and enjoy favorable circumstances—‘to get along well, to succeed.” 1
In 3 John 2, John writes,
“Beloved, I pray that all may go well with you and that you may be in good health, as it goes well with your soul.”
This prayer highlights three key areas of prosperity: general well-being, physical health, and spiritual growth. It’s a holistic approach that encourages us to seek balance in our lives.
Avoiding Extremes
It’s crucial to avoid two extremes when considering prosperity. On the one hand, prosperity theology suggests that God guarantees health, wealth, and success to all believers. Those who maintain “the prosperity Gospel” or “Name it claim it Theology,” take a passage like this and extrapolate a ton of meaning that the text simply doesn’t intend to add. This teaching suggest that It is God’s will that every Christian prosper physically, and that each Christian should claim by faith their material blessing of health and wealth. This view can lead to disappointment and a misunderstanding of God’s purposes.
This is exemplified by someone like Joel Osteen:
“When you speak [blessings] out you give life to what you say. It’s not enough to just think this. You don’t bless yourself by just dwelling on positive thoughts. Nothing happens unless you speak. When you say I am blessed blessings come looking for you; When you say I am prosperous good brakes start heading your way; When you say I am healthy health starts tracking you down.” (Joel Osteen, Sermon: Bless Yourself).).
“All of us are born for earthly greatness. You were born to win.” “God wants you to live in abundance, you were born to be a champion. He wants to give you the desires of your heart.” “Before we were formed, He prepared us to live abundant lives, to be happy, healthy and whole. But when our thinking becomes contaminated, it’s no longer in line with God’s Word,” (Joel Osteen quoted by John Macarthur)
But is this what the Bible Teaches? No! The Bible actually warns against seeking material riches and says that suffering and persecution are realities for the Christian
“Blessed are you when others revile you and persecute you and utter all kinds of evil against you falsely on my account. 12 Rejoice and be glad, for your reward is great in heaven, for so they persecuted the prophets who were before you. (Matthew 5:11-12)
When they had preached the gospel to that city and had made many disciples, they returned to Lystra and to Iconium and to Antioch, 22 strengthening the souls of the disciples, encouraging them to continue in the faith, and saying that through many tribulations we must enter the kingdom of God.(Acts 14:21-22)
On the other hand, asceticism rejects all forms of pleasure and material blessings, which can result in a joyless and legalistic faith. Asceticism is severe self-discipline and avoidance of all forms of indulgence, typically for religious reasons. This extreme goes in the other direction and teaches that Christians shouldn’t pray or seek any kind of pleasures in this world. But this isn’t what the Bible teaches either! The Bible teaches that God desires to bless us! And not just spiritually but even physically.
As for the rich in this present age, charge them not to be haughty, nor to set their hopes on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly provides us with everything to enjoy.(1 Timothy 6:17)
Understanding True Prosperity
So what is the proper perspective? In a word, contentment!
I rejoiced in the Lord greatly that now at length you have revived your concern for me. You were indeed concerned for me, but you had no opportunity. 11 Not that I am speaking of being in need, for I have learned in whatever situation I am to be content. 12 I know how to be brought low, and I know how to abound. In any and every circumstance, I have learned the secret of facing plenty and hunger, abundance and need.(Philippians 4:10-12)
give me neither poverty nor riches; feed me with the food that is needful for me, lest I be full and deny you and say, “Who is the Lord?” or lest I be poor and steal and profane the name of my God (Proverbs 30:8-9)
Now with all of the qualifications in place we can properly understand and apply our text. John’s simple prayer can be divided into three parts; each of which can serve as a proper prayer for 2025!
- General Prosperity: First, notice what John writes: “I Pray that all may go well with you…, or as the NASB puts it: “Beloved, I pray that in all respects you may prosper…” What a delightful prayer! John prays that in every aspect of Gaius’ life it go well. Man, that is my prayer for you! I pray all aspects of your life goes well this year!
- Physical Health: Good health is a blessing that allows us to serve God and others more effectively. While we can’t control every aspect of our health, we can take steps to care for our bodies, recognizing them as temples of the Holy Spirit. This includes making wise choices about diet, exercise, and rest. We don’t often speak of this area of the Christian life, but we should pray for one another’s health and physical bodies.
bodily training is of some value (1 Timothy 4:8)
No longer drink only water, but use a little wine for the sake of your stomach and your frequent ailments.) (1 Timothy 5:23)
- Spiritual Prosperity: The most important aspect of prosperity is our spiritual health. John rejoices in knowing that Gaius is “walking in the truth (see verses 3-4)” Our relationship with God should be our top priority, as it influences every other area of our lives. Spiritual growth involves regular prayer, Bible study, and fellowship with other believers.
Notice what John says about Gaius…John prays his physical health matches his spiritual health! Why? Because his spiritual health was prospering (same word!) What if that prayer was answered for you? What would your physical health be like If someone prayed: “lord, let their physical health match their present spiritual health!? Now, as much as we should pray for the physical prosperity of each other’s lives—nothing can compare to the prayer for spiritual prosperity!
Taking the Next Step
As you reflect on this prayer for proper prosperity, consider how you can apply it to your life. Are there areas where you need to seek balance or make changes? Perhaps it’s time to focus on your spiritual growth, prioritize your health, or find contentment in your current circumstances. Remember, prosperity is not about what you have but about who you are becoming in Christ.
Conclusion
The point is, Jesus wants your whole heart. What will you do this week to give it to Him? Will you commit to growing spiritually, caring for your health, and finding contentment in all circumstances? Without taking these steps, you might miss out on the abundant life Jesus desires for you. So, let’s embrace this prayer for proper prosperity and trust God to lead us into a year of true success and blessing.
Prayer
Heavenly Father, thank You for Your love and the promise of true prosperity in our lives. Help us to seek balance in all areas, prioritizing our spiritual growth and trusting You with our needs. May we find contentment in Your provision and use our blessings to serve others. Guide us as we walk in Your truth, and may this year be one of growth and joy in You. In Jesus’ name, Amen.
Johannes P. Louw and Eugene Albert Nida, Greek-English Lexicon of the New Testament: Based on Semantic Domains (New York: United Bible Societies, 1996), 247.